What is the difference between decluttering, tidying, and organising? And which does your home need most?

These words are often used interchangeably however, decluttering, tidying, and organising are three distinct processes, and understanding the differences is key to maintaining an orderly home.

What is the difference between decluttering, tidying, and organising?

It may seem straightforward to distinguish between these three processes, but the surge in home organising on social media has led to their frequent interchangeability, causing confusion about the complete process necessary for keeping a home tidy.

While jumbling up these terms is not inherently wrong, it can make it more challenging to prevent a house from becoming messy when the steps are mixed up or one is overlooked entirely.

Decluttering

Declutter (verb) – to remove things you do not need from a place, in order to make it more pleasant and more useful.

Decluttering is a process most of us are familiar with, involving the removal of belongings when our homes have accumulated items with no designated places.

Though decluttering is often confused with tidying, some people interpret it as eliminating visible clutter. While decluttering accomplishes this, the focus is on eliminating cluttered items, such as decluttering a closet and donating old clothes to a charity, rather than merely ‘decluttering’ (tidying) a coffee table and returning items like remotes and books to their proper places.

I suggest people declutter and focus on only one space at a time or the process is overwhelming. When you declutter a family room, for instance, you might remove and recycle magazines or catalogues that have been read or are no longer wanted. You declutter a closet or a chest of drawers when it’s difficult to put clothes away or can not easily find items you want.

Organising

Organize verb (MAKE A SYSTEM) – To do or arrange something according to a particular system:

Organising is one of the most satisfying steps and is crucial if you want your house to remain functional and aesthetically pleasing.

Organising goes a bit further. It’s about arranging your belongings logically and efficiently, creating systems that help you find things easily. This is what you do when you want to make your space more functional, like setting up labelled storage bins or arranging your closet.

This step is best performed after you have decluttered and cleared out old belongings that you no longer use. After all, it makes very little sense to try and organise kitchen appliances in a cabinet, so they are easy to use if you haven’t decluttered a kitchen first to make space and clear out appliances you no longer use.

Tidying

Tidy- tidy adjective (ORDERED)- having everything ordered and arranged in the right place, or liking to keep things like this:

Tidying is the final step in keeping a house neat and is often confused with organising. You should avoid tidying before you have a good home organising system in place; otherwise, you will be trying to stash away belongings that don’t have a proper home – essentially just moving messes around.

Tidying becomes necessary when things are not put back correctly, leading to a disorganised environment. Regular tidying sessions prevent the need for extensive decluttering and organising efforts by maintaining order on an ongoing basis, e.g. you have tidied the coffee table or the children’s bedroom.

Why it’s important to use the right process.

Using the appropriate term for the specific task you’re undertaking is essential for achieving your desired results and avoiding unnecessary pitfalls. Applying excessive decluttering without considering the value and usefulness of items can lead to regrets later.

Items might be put away, but if they lack designated spaces, you’ll find yourself back in disarray soon. Ensure your tidying efforts are supported by proper organisation techniques, and it will even help you to clean a house fast, too.

Think of the process like this.

Once you have decluttered, then organised, and set up systems to best suit you, remember to do the regular tidying. If things start to build up again another declutter will be needed. However, I do recommend all my clients to regularly declutter even if it is just in line with summer and winter.

So, ultimately your home needs all of these three but you must start with the decluttering to make the whole process much easier.

Decluttering and thoughts.

Decluttering is not an easy task to do and will not happen fast, I love to remind all my clients it is a journey and a journey you can love too.

Here are five ideas to think about when it comes to decluttering.

1.           Treasure Your Belongings:

Focus on retaining only your most cherished possessions. Instead of fixating on what to discard, concentrate on the joy your favourite items bring. Embrace using and enjoying them regularly and consider the legacy of love and experiences you want to leave behind. Prioritize creating memories and connections over accumulating material possessions and ponder whether your family or children would value the items you’re holding onto.

2.           Homes are sanctuaries of Love, not just things:

Acknowledge that homes are more than storage spaces; they are sanctuaries for love and connection. Decluttering opens the path to a life centred around meaningful relationships, personal well-being, fulfilling work, and exploration. Shift your mindset: less clutter means more room for love and connection.

3.           The Trap of Accumulation:

Resist the temptation to accumulate more belongings. Often, decluttering isn’t about acquiring more items but having fewer possessions. Excessive storage solutions and organization systems can lead to increased demands on your time and attention. Embrace the notion that less is more for a balanced life, recognizing the costs associated with acquiring, maintaining, and managing possessions.

4.           Define True Desires and Happiness – Empower Yourself:

When decluttering becomes daunting, reflect on your genuine desires for your heart, family, and life. Consider whether you want more items to manage or if you crave additional space, time, and peace. Find joy in needing less to be happy, as an abundance of possessions often leads to dissatisfaction. Simplify your life by owning fewer things, and fostering lightness, gratitude, and happiness. True contentment doesn’t come from accumulating possessions; free up resources by releasing what no longer serves you.

5.           Create Space for Life, Not Clutter:

Resist filling every empty space with belongings or acquiring more storage solutions. Appreciate the beauty of unoccupied spaces and allow time for alignment with your desires before making decisions. Clear space for what truly matters, enabling you to be present for yourself and loved ones. Create room to love, create, heal, and appreciate the magnificence of life.

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love and light, Steph